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Do you get scared when you hear the emergency alert system sound?

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Question : Do you get scared when you hear the emergency alert system sound?
Whenever its the dead of night and I hear it, it sends a chill running up my spine
emergency alert system

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Answer by ♥βЯΪǺЙŇД♥
yes!!! i hate it!!! its like 3 in the morning and it wakes me up!!!

Contemplating treatment for Self harm and Eating disorder but scared and want to know what Residential is like?

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Question : Contemplating treatment for Self harm and Eating disorder but scared and want to know what Residential is like?
I have struggled with SI and ED for almost 10 years. I went into treatment at the Renfrew Center in June and am now in out patient there. I was told last week that they really want me to do residential or in patient. I did the day treatment and IOP. I really feel like I shouldn’t be where I am at but I am and today in therapy I was almost forced to go into the hospital but made a compromise. Part of me thinks I can keep trying and maybe eventually it will stick and that I’m just going through a rough patch but on the other hand I don’t know, maybe I should. Has anyone ever been in patient or residential for either of these? Please tell me what its like good or bad. I need to know!!
residential treatment centers for eating disorders

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Answer by Serene E
HONEY!!!! THE FEAR COMES FROM THE SELF HARM AND EATING DISORDER!!!!!!
Both are overly concerned with what people think of you!!!

YOU’VE SUFFERED 10 YEARS!!!!!!!! GET HELP!!!

help me i’m scared, is this an eating disorder? please help!!!?

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Question : help me i’m scared, is this an eating disorder? please help!!!?
I’m not sure if I have an eating disorder, or not. I, personally, am leaning towards yes.

Every time I look in the mirror, I feel like crying. I always see something wrong with me, I always feel like I’m fat and covered in cellulite. I have low self esteem because I feel like I’m… chunky and overweight. I’m 13 and 5’3”. I weigh 120lbs.
When I look in the mirror, I sometimes pinch areas of my body where I want the fat to disappear, as if I’m just pinching it off. I have some bruises because of that.
I recently have cut down on how much food I eat. I don’t really keep track of how many calories a day, but my guess is anywhere from 300 calories to 800 calories a day. I’ve lost around 5lbs in the past week. If I binge one day, then I will fast the next.
I don’t feel all too much better about myself. Is this an eating disorder?
If so, can you please list some eating disorder hot lines? Thanks.
eating disorder help line

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Answer by Seeker
I’m by no means a master at this, but I would say you certainly have some characteristics that you should keep an eye on. I know this sounds EXTREMELY brash and harsh and I have hated getting this answer. But please, give it an honest-to-goodness try. Try to look in the mirror and just accept yourself. Do this as often as you need. Then try to eat normally – look at what your friends who are of normal weight eat and mirror that if you have lost sight of what normalcy is (I sure know how that is).

If you really cannot stop yourself from doing these things, then I would ask that you confide in someone you trust. Don’t freak out and run to a psychiatrist, but make sure you know this is out of your control before you go looking for a diagnoses, because once diagnosed you can start to almost play into your diagnosis and make things worse. Just try your best, and if you can’t do it, confide in a friend and seek some pro help.

The Nanny — Nazi — State Goes a long with Why People Are Scared (The original & my response)?

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Question : The Nanny — Nazi — State Goes a long with Why People Are Scared (The original & my response)?
Willys cynical thought for the day;

In my web research, Declaration of Independence, etc., I have yet to find where the government says they’ll be my freaking mommy! So you goddamn politicians stay the hell out of my life and pockets AZZHOLES!

The Nanny State (I got this in a Biker email rag)

Worrying about bacteria, New Jersey banned restaurants from serving eggs sunny side up. The ban has since been lifted. Some New Jersey localities have a ban on people pumping their own gasoline. Policemen issue citations for driving without a seatbelt. By law new cars must be equipped with air bags. Federal law mandates that all new toilets flush using a paltry 1.6 gallons of water. Georgia’s governor mandates that classical music be given to all new mothers so as to aid infant IQ development. California, and others, has banned smoking in bars. Clinton wants a law passed banning smoking within 100 feet of a federal building. In parts of Ohio, children going trick-or-treating must obtain a special permit. These intrusions and more were recently revealed by television journalist John Stossel on ABC’s 20/20. The stated motivation behind this gross intrusion and criminalization of private behavior is to protect us from making unwise choices.

John Stossel asked Ricardo Martinez, head of the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA), why can’t people at least have air bag on/off switches. Martinez responded by saying that society makes decisions about what benefits most people, and most people benefit from air bags. Stossel interviewed Yale University’s Professor Kelley D. Brownell, director of the Center for Eating & Weight Disorders who thinks Americans eat too many hamburgers and French fries. Professor Brownell wants government to tax fatty foods and those with little nutritional content and use the proceeds to subsidize fruits, vegetables and other nutritious foods. He’s suggested that some of the tax proceeds be used to build bike and hiking trails.

I’m wondering just when Americans are going to decide that we’ve had enough government meddling in our lives. It is nobody’s business whether I eat eggs sunny side up, drive without wearing seat belts, or pig out on hamburgers and French fries. I’d like someone to show me Congress’s constitutional authority for government protecting me from making unwise choices. Those who believe government should be in the business of making us take care of ourselves, should tell us where does it all end? Should government decide what time we go to bed? After all sleep is vital to good health. Should government force us to exercise, read wholesome literature, and bathe regularly?

The people who advocate a nanny government (a better term is Nazi government) are cowards. You say, “What do you mean, William?” Take Kelley Brownell. If he doesn’t want me to eat that Big Mac and French fries, let him walk up to my table and remove them from my plate. He wants no part of doing that because he doesn’t want to meet his maker this year so he prefers using the brutal forces of government. “The rest is mine;

When I was young, bullies use to pick on me, take food off my lunch tray and otherwise harass me. That’s until I followed the advice of my father who told me that if you let a bully get away with one thing, the next day it’s going to be something else and the following day something else again. He told me that the bullying won’t stop until I decide to stand up and fight. He said that even if I lose the fight, the next time I’m bullied, stand up and fight again. Let the bully know that when he bullies, win, lose or draw, he has a fight on his hands. Eventually he will stop. I think Americans should employ my Dad’s advice. As long as we stand as lambs before the slaughter you can bet that there’ll be no end to Congress’s bureaucratic stooges bullying us.

This is still America, last I checked anyway, yes we have ‘freedom’ here but ‘freedom’ is, never was and never will be ‘Free.’ Those of us who like to eat hamburgers and greasy fries must take responsibility by a) walking around with a big butt b) doing exercise or c) (in my case) taking cholesterol lowering pills and *trying* to stay away from the greasy stuff.

If we don’t want to wear seatbelts, or helmets, WE, not Congress, must pay in pain, time (in hospitals, rehabs w/e), or loss of body parts. I’m firmly convinced I would never have survived, some of, the accidents I was in had I been hog-tied to the seat. The insurance companies, and Medical providers, ALWAYS lobby for these laws but I haven’t heard of a single case where after such a law was passed the insurance company says, “Oh with your 20 year perfect driving record (not mine) we’ve decided that your next ___ year’s insurance is on us.” Has a hospital ever said, “Now that our ER doctors and nurses won’t have to be patching up all the accidents maybe we should offer breast enlargement at half price?” Now stop laughing and reread this paragraph in it, under sarcasm, is the point I’m trying to make. The answer to both is NO! And unless an insurance company or hospital administrator is reading this, and wants to prove me wrong, I don’t think it ever will be!

The ‘it’s good for you’ doesn’t stop at the things listed above. What if a slimy politician took it in his, or her, head that tattooing is wrong? Or certain subjects can’t be tattooed on anybody? Like large breasted blondes, skulls, flames, or spider webs? I hope I’m NOT giving them any ideas because I have all these. This can be taken as far as you want to go like; they pass a law that ONLY Army, Marine, Navy, Airforce w/e tattoos are kosher. Or just Democrat or Republican ink is allowed. How about the ONLY lower back, female, tattoo that will be allowed is a ‘GodSmack Sun?’ Okay tattooists stop salivating imagining how much business you’ll get by people running out to get their favorite tattoo done. And remember the upswing will only last until enforcement duties are figured out, i.e., the local Police, County cops, State Police or help us all if the FBI gets the job. Actually help them I don’t need any help!

And of course that’s not the only thing ‘good for you.’ This has been tried but what if Congress actually passed a law banning Rock & Roll, Country, Blues, Rock-a-Billy or Rap music. Or what if they legislate pianos, Violins and Trumpets are the only acceptable instruments? No electric guitars, fiddles, Blues Harps or Saxophones? And of course subsidizing lessons is another way to do, almost, the same thing!

Americans are lucky the founding fathers came from Europe where Religion – a belief in their God – was considered ‘good for you’ so it was mandated in some places; which is where ‘The First Amendment’ came from. If European governments had mandated seatbelts on cable cars and horses, and or required at least 4 oz. of meat at dinner — chicken, beef or fish — there may have been another Bill of Rights. This one saying, something like, “Congress shall make no law requiring citizens to do anything somebody thinks will be good for them.” Unless, of course, any of them made, or sold, seatbelts or had anything to do with producing, or selling, meat. In 1776 that was, almost, everybody. This was long before people either ate meat or were vegetarians. In fact getting enough to eat was more important than the cholesterol!” Now a few quotes;

“The career of a politician mainly consists in making one part of the nation do what it does not want to do, in order to please and satisfy the other part of the nation. It is the prolonged sacrifice of the rights of some persons at the bidding and for the satisfaction of other persons. The ruling idea of the politician – stated rather bluntly – is that those who are opposed to him exist for the purpose of being made to serve his ends, if he can get power enough in his hands to force these ends upon them.” — Auberon Herbert

“There is no worse tyranny than to force a man to pay for what he does not want merely because you think it would be good for him.” — Robert Heinlein

“The most basic question is not what is best but who shall decide what is best.” — Thomas Sowell

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From; Willys Jokes archieves
eating disorder center of california

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Answer by Jeff2smart
Cool you said NAzi :) , Deutschland!

I am scared to go to a eating disorder specialist!!!?

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Question : I am scared to go to a eating disorder specialist!!!?
I am scared to go to a doctor for apparently my “eating disorder”. Everyone said I have a problem but I tell them am just on a diet!! I am scared what the specialist will say! My mom said if this doesn’t work I will have to go to rehab but I don’t understand I am just on a diet!! But anyways does anyone know what to expect and or what you think of this?!?!
eating disorder specialist

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Answer by Rebecca
suck it up. just go. if everyone thinks you have a problem, then you probably do.

i’m scared out of my mind when i go the dentist .?

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Question : i’m scared out of my mind when i go the dentist .?
Does anyone in Fairfax, Va know of a dentist that can deal with 23y/o babies ? I’m SO scared when i go , Dentist are Butchers to me .. i need someone gental , an that can Knock me out for what i need done. HELP !
dentist fairfax

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Answer by Peggy F
I was like that to and my dentist gives me novacain. All the time . So ask you dentist. Peggy Fannin

Should I avoid sex forever, because I’m scared the first erectile dysfunction?

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To be honest I am a little afraid, ever in a serious relationship with a girl because I was afraid that if I’m getting older, I’ll will come erectile dysfunction, and it will be very, very peinlich.Plus if I have a am an old man, I do not see how I would find my wife hot when she was old too. So why should I have sex with an old, wrinkled woman? Why should I avoid not only ever marry a girlfriend and sex?

Should I avoid sex forever because I am scared of getting erectile dysfunction?

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To be honest, I am somewhat afraid of ever getting in a serious relationship with any girl because I am afraid that when I get older, I will get erectile dysfunction and it will be extremely embarrassing.

Plus, when I am an old guy, I don’t see how I would find my wife hot, if she was also old. So why would I want to have sex with an old, wrinkly woman? Why shouldn’t I just avoid ever getting a girlfriend, getting married, and having sex?

Gwyneth Paltrow: “I am not as scared as I had My 20s”

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Gwyneth Paltrow : ‘I’m Not Scared the Way I Was in My 20s’
“Believe me, Robert [Downey Jr.] is in the worst mood when he has to wear that Iron Man suit. I do not regret that my character Pepper doesn’t have more action. I get to banter with Robert, I get to wear my nice high heels and kid around and at least my outfit is always clean.”

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Scared of Statins? 5 Ways Chia Seeds Can Help You Lower Your Cholesterol

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Scared of Statins? Don’t want costly prescriptions?  Lower Your Cholesterol the Easy Chia Way!

All you have to do is turn on the TV and you’ll know that millions of people have a cholesterol problem. Major drug companies can’t seem to advertise their pharmaceuticals enough! However, if the idea of spending loads of money on prescriptions every month isn’t something you enjoy, it might be time to look for another, healthier solution.

You might have also noticed that Statin Drugs have come under a negative light in some studies. It’s known that they deplete body levels of Coenzyme Q-10 (CoQ-10) which is something your heart needs in order to function correctly. They can also deplete other critical nutrients from the body, and sometimes lower good cholesterol as well. Sure, you can supplement with Co-Q10 pills, but that’s even more money out of your pocket! So aside from all the expense, do you really want to risk these negative effects?

The good news is, you can lower your cholesterol naturally, and inexpensively through food. You may have seen the claims on famous products like Cheerie-o’s ™ and Quaker Oats ™, that “soluble fiber combined with a low saturated fat diet may reduce the risk of heart disease”. There’s more to it then that, and it’s all beneficial to you!

A low fat diet is great, but you also need some pro-active cholesterol cleaners in your corner if you really want to beat down the threat of hardening arteries and cholesterol clogs. The key isn’t to avoid all fats or cholesterol sources, because your body actually needs some to function properly. It’s the ability to sweep away the bad and encourage the good that will lead to better health.  

Your key to success can be the Chia Seed, but only if you take action.

How can tiny seeds you’ve never heard of put the brakes one such a big problem as cholesterol? There are so many ways, and you can examine each one in this article. Read exactly about how each fascinating facet benefits you:

First: Soluble FiberThe exterior of the chia seed is covered in soluble fiber. But this isn’t just any soluble fiber, like that of an oat or flax seed. The fiber of Chia is special, in that it can absorb NINE times the weight of the seed in water, and hold it close to the surface. When it does this, it forms a bead of gel, with the consistency of a gelatin snack. This gel isn’t easily removed from the seed. It takes the digestive system a while to use and remove it, thus hydrating the colon and easing digestion.

Second: Insoluble fiberInsoluble fiber cannot be digested or absorbed by the body. It is sometimes referred to as “Roughage” and acts as a sweeper in the intestines. When food doesn’t sit around or become overly dry in the colon, toxic substances don’t build up. Unfriendly bacteria doesn’t get the chance to go to work. When insoluble fiber is taking up space in the digestive system, you’re more likely to feel full for longer and thus not eat as much at meal time. Losing excess weight is another key to keeping cholesterol down.

Third: Unsaturated Fatty AcidsThese may sound complicated, but they’re important for cell respiration (oxygen transported into cells), the lubrication and resilience of cells. There’s an especially important fatty acid that your body can’t make. It’s called “Linoleic”. You usually get this from raw plant-source foods…but who gets enough of those these days? With Chia Seeds, you won’t have to worry about it. They’re rich in this important nutrient. How are these important for your cholesterol? They combine with cholesterol in the body to form membranes that hold cells together. It puts cholesterol to good use, but only if you have enough of it to make the combination!

Fourth: Long-Chain triglyceridesThese large molecules take a stand to scrub cholesterol off of artery walls, but only when eaten in the right proportions. Chia seeds have these long chain triglycerides in the right proportions to help reduce it for you.

Fifth: Risk FactorsReducing or eliminating risk factors for high cholesterol is important as well. Some risk factors you can’t do anything about, like heredity. But others such as obesity and diabetes you can help to control with Chia. (The soluble fiber in chia seeds helps control blood sugar levels by slowing down the transformation of carbohydrates into sugars)

Understanding that not all fats are bad, and taking in healthy oils is an important part of a balanced diet. There are so many delicious chia seed recipes, including breakfast bars, granola, fruit smoothies and more that adding this tiny seed to your diet is a snap. What makes it extra amazing is, that unlike other health foods, you can make these seeds taste like whatever you want. They absorb any liquid they’re placed in, (Remember Fact #1) and distribute the flavor. They have no flavor of their own, so they can’t cover up or ‘ruin’ the taste of foods you love. They’re as easy to use as ‘measure & sprinkle on’! No messy grinding or any preparation is needed.

With the chia seed, you get all the nutrition, and all the taste. Remember: “You Are What You Eat” so eating healthy is a big step toward being healthy. Chia isn’t some foreign miracle-berry or fruit grown in a far off land and sold at a premium price either–these seeds cost under a dollar a day.

If you’re looking for an all natural, pesticide free, delicious and EASY way to lower your cholesterol, consider adding chia seeds to your diet, you’ll be amazed at what they can do for you!

This author is from MySeeds Chia Seeds & has also produced the 2 free cook books found there, as well as several educational and cooking how-to videos. Don’t forget your free shipping on top quality chia seeds too!

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