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How Do I Leave My Painful Past Behind Me?
11 year ago
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in Nutrition & Dieting
Question : How Do I Leave My Painful Past Behind Me?
Q&A – How Do I Leave My Painful Past Behind Me?
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Dr. John H. Sklare, Ed.D
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
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Q: How do you put the past in the past and live in the present without it haunting you? I was abused for 10 years in a marriage – some mild physical abuse, some sexual, and a lot of verbal. I am now remarried and I thought I got over my past and moved on. But come to find out, I just buried it, and now am getting help for depression and anxiety. In therapy, I’m learning that I never got over my past. So my question – one that seems nobody has a formula or answer for – is how do you leave your past and live in the present without your past haunting you, and move to a new and better you? I feel like I take one step forward and two back.
-Shannon S.
A: Hi Shannon,
Let me begin by telling you how sorry I am to hear about your past abusive marriage. As often as I receive messages like yours, they still strike a chord with me and tug sharply at my heart strings. I’m so glad that you’re out of that nightmare. Nobody deserves that kind of treatment, and I applaud your decision to take action and escape. I am also very pleased to hear that you’re getting help for your depression and anxiety. I’m confident that one day you will look back at therapy as being one of the best decisions you ever made for yourself and your new marriage. And you are so right about there being no single formula for leaving the past behind and living in the present. Even though our individuality is one of the things that make each of us so unique and special, it is also the very thing that makes it impossible to supply a one size fits all answer to moving on. But I do have something personal to share with you about this issue that I hope you will find helpful.
I have a little ceramic sign in my kitchen that reads as follows: “The past is history. The future is mystery. The NOW is a gift. That’s why we call it – THE PRESENT!” I read that little sign, which is right next to my toaster, each and every morning, Shannon. It’s like a morning mantra for me, and also a constant reminder to be mindful about NOT projecting negative expectations into the future and NOT allowing pain from the past to color my day. It’s my daily reminder to embrace what I have today, right at this moment, in the here and now. I find that far too many people spend so much of their time dreading the future and lamenting the past that they totally miss the wonder and beauty of life in the moment. Anyway, I know I haven’t given you the magic answer, but the fact that you are seeing a therapist, E-mailing me and are actively seeking this answer tells me that you are a woman of action and that things are going to be just fine. Don’t let your past become your shadow, Shannon. Let the light of therapy and the strength of your inner spirit show you the way! I believe in you!
Wishing You Great Health,
Dr. John H. Sklare
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Best answer:
Answer by sab c
i think it is not about leaving the past behind you because the past is apart of you, you cannot forget the bad and just remember the good, what helped me deal with the things in the past is “OWNING” the past.. taking back the power that it took from you…once you take the power, the hurt, the pain that it caused you in the past once you take it and come to terms with it and let it go it will no longer control your life….you have to face your demons…and sometimes other people create those demons in your life but you can still face them and after that they cannot hurt you no more….you have to tell yourself that is was OK to hurt and it is OK that you still hurt…and that u are going to take that hurt and change it into something that cannot hurt u no more….and this takes time..alot of time…you have to tell your self what what happened to u was no good but it is not going to follow you around for the rest of your life…you need closure…do alot of praying…pray for strength…take it one day at a time….believe in better days and don’t let it beat you….i believe in you…!!!!
Burning, Medical Leave, and Intensive out-patient ED treatment? I need help/advice?
01 year ago
by admin
in Nutrition & Dieting
Question : Burning, Medical Leave, and Intensive out-patient ED treatment? I need help/advice?
My parents are forcing me to go on medical leave for the rest of my school semester and do intensive out-patient treatment for bulimia nervosa. I don’t want to quit school, but I’m not being given a choice. I’ve been so stressed about it that I’ve been binging and purging non-stop, drinking, and burning myself. I need to get hold of myself, but I’m nervous/scared. What do I do?
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Best answer:
Answer by Jen
I think your parents are looking out for your best interest. It sounds like you need some extra help right now and you need take care of yourself first and foremost. School can wait. You can finish when you are healthier. Please go and get some extra help. Hang in there!!
How does laser hair removal leave your skin; smooth or like sand paper?
1Question : How does laser hair removal leave your skin; smooth or like sand paper?
Thinking about getting laser hair removal on my back hair.
Whenever I shave with a razor now, it’s like my t-shirts get stuck to my skin. I guess it makes my skin kind of like sand paper and the shirt can’t sit right. I wouldn’t want t shirts to permanently be like that because it’s annoying. Will laser hair removal do that too or will it make my skin smooth?
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Best answer:
Answer by Dollie
laser hair removal removes the hair completely from the follicle.. so there should be no stubs.. some people have hair that grow back but it most cases it’s very smooth
Concerns leave may Relapse triggers for people with eating disorders
01 year ago
by admin
in Nutrition & Dieting
most holiday meals suggests conviviality, tradition and time with family and friends. For someone who is in recovery from an eating disorder, but the emphasis on high food prices caused anxiety, stress, and in severe cases of relapse.
After Eating Recovery Center (www.EatingRecoveryCenter.com), a behavior of a hospital offers a comprehensive and lasting recovery for eating disorders, the key stress around the holidays is being prepared. Just knowing the details of the holiday events can reduce anxiety and fear associated with the parties, meals and gatherings holiday. Plan ahead and, relying on support from family, friends and professionals in the treatment goes a long way toward successfully navigating this difficult time and experienced a sustained recovery. Eating Recovery Center offers these five recommendations to help individuals in recovery confidently manage festivities:move the value of food and calorie counting to celebrate and spend time with his relatives. Stay away from talking to all kinds of good food / bad food. You have surrounded yourself with people, healthy relationships with their bodies, nutrition and weight. When I attend meetings, bring a family member or friend, if you can. Keep to open the channels of communication and to involve your family and friends in your challenges, victories and goals. Before attending a rally holidays, consider whether to ask the host what the food is served. Bring food “healthy”, if necessary.
During the holiday season can affect the support of family and friends much the individual ability to effectively manage these stressful situations. For those who support a person with the eating disorder during the holidays, Eating Recovery Center offers these suggestions:
Ask your family or a friend, what do you do to support them. Ease into the holiday season by focusing on activities that are not food, such as setting up decorations or sending cards. Stress can escalate at a rally holiday. With a loved one the opportunity to “escape” for a while can help emotions under control. Note indicated the snacks and goodies during the holidays. Reduce the availability of snacks, a family member or friend to help keep their schedules regular meals. Please be patient and press your continued support. Marla
Scanzello, MS, RD, Food Services Director for the Eating Recovery Center, explains the key to navigate holiday meals with confidence in the conduct of your family, your friends, or you’re in the recovery process. He also stressed the importance of the support, flexibility and recognition needs.
“When things do not realize, as planned, that a meal does not make or break you,” says Scanzello. “Just get back on track with your next meal.” If an eating disorder escalation during the holidays, get treatment in a specialized institution in the care of eating disorders can be the best course of action. be a variety of treatment across the country, including the Eating Recovery Center offers several specialties and treatment options, and the ability to patients, the different levels of care. For more information on treating the navigation holiday meals with your insurance, please https: / /. Www.eatingrecoverycenter.com/pdf/ERC_Holiday_v3.pdfTreatments for eating disorders
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41 year ago
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Moment of Clarity Before I Leave for Treatment (part 1)
51 year ago
by admin
in Nutrition & Dieting
overeating treatment
PART 1 – by some miracle, i am ready to finally try.
Does a breast lift surgery always leave scars?
21 year ago
by admin
in Health Care Services
Question : Does a breast lift surgery always leave scars?
I’m interested in getting a breast lift surgery at some point soon but all of the pictures I have seen of women who’ve had it done show a hideous scar going from the nipple to the underside of the breast. I have an olive skin tone so I’m not sure if a scar like that would fade after a little while but I was wondering if anyone could possibly give me more information on this… thnx!
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Best answer:
Answer by Kourtney
you will have some scars, however after a few years they will fade to where no one would notice them except for yourself unless if they were looking really hard..
but some spots scar more than others
WHY WON’T ANYONE JUST LEAVE ME ALONE?! How can I get out of treatment for anorexia, a disorder I don’t have!!!?
71 year ago
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Question : WHY WON’T ANYONE JUST LEAVE ME ALONE?! How can I get out of treatment for anorexia, a disorder I don’t have!!!?
My older brother found a bag of rotten dinners in my closet- as my family was eating, I would put food in my sleeve or pocket and then store it in my closet so I wouldn’t have to eat. He told my parents and now everyone in my family thinks that I’m anorexic.
I told everyone that I’m fine and that I’m NOT anorexic but they don’t believe me- I explained that it’s not called anorexia when you’re fat, it’s called a diet. But she made me go to the doctor anyway and the doctor diagnosed me as anorexic, calling my eating patterns “disturbing” and my weight a “cause for concern.” I told her I was fine and she just wouldn’t listen to what I had to say. I went to outpatient treatment and lost more weight (because I could stand to lose a few, not because I have issues) the doctor and basically told my parents I was being admitted to a treatment facility.
Do I have any rights? Can I be re-evaluated by a different physician? I’m 17 years old, it’s my senior year of high school, and I don’t want anyone thinking I’m anorexic or insane. I don’t know what my friends would think, my boyfriend, my teachers, etc. How do I avoid treatment?!
Also, I went from 128 pounds to 110 pounds (at 5’6″). It was only 18 pounds, and I’m only four pounds underweight. Isn’t this ridiculous?
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Best answer:
Answer by 420Borat
Wow…OK then!
Leave the money at home: new toll only want your plastic
01 year ago
Leave The Cash At Home: New Tolls Only Want Your Plastic
RICHMOND – The coins are clinking for the last time on Pocahontas Parkway. After rush hour Tuesday, the Laburnum ramps on I-895 are officially going cash-less. This change is all part of a plan to upgrade toll technology and make passing through more convenient for drivers.
Read more on CBS 6 Richmond
Why Botox jabs could leave you emotionally stuck
01 year ago
by admin
in Health Care Services
Why Botox jabs could leave you emotionally uptight
The research reinforces the psychological theory that facial expressions can affect your mood, as well as being an indicator of it – so, for example, not being able to smile means you do not feel as happy.
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