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Wheelchair?
Question : Wheelchair?
Recently some people that I know have gotten into accidents, and are now wheelchair bound. A part of me wants to be there with them in a chair next to them. Is it because of empathy? I don’t want them to go through it alone…Im just confused on why I am wanting to be in a chair….help
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Answer by Sandra B
That is the last thing they want from you. Treat them like normal, DO NOT pity them. My daughter was in a electric wheelchair for 3 yrs due to an illness, and I never never pitied her or felt sorry, I treated her like a normal person. It was hard, but you have to do that, they do not want sympathy or pity, it just makes them feel worse, as I am sure they hate their lives at the moment.
I just got news that the wheelchair I was put in “temporarily” well I suddenly got welcomed into the wheelchair club. For me I am scared all the time. Today was my first day back to work and there are no wheelchair access doors, the “handicapped” bathroom stalls are too small, My arms are always tired. My hands hurt. I can’t move very fast and I am becoming severly depressed. I am telling you this because Your friends may feel this way right now too. Its going to take time and help. Help them. Give them someone to practice get up steep ramps and also getting down them without crashing into something because they are not used to controling the chair. I love to hear “can I get that door for you” because I can’t figure it out. I am all alone. I have no one by my side to let me try to get used this metal prison. You are a blessing to your friends. Please do that for them. Don’t wish for this. Even if you did a “day in the life” of a wheelchair bound person you can’t get. I did this in college. It was a breeze. I thought I can deal with this. When I went into the wheelchair this time I said oh yeah this will be easy. I would never have been able to grasp the very concept of the new world I live in now.