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Please help me! I ran away from my anorexia clinic. Now what should i do?

Question : Please help me! I ran away from my anorexia clinic. Now what should i do?
This is my situation. I’m 16, and 5 days ago i was made to go to an anorexia home. I don’t see why i had to go because i am never going to change who i am.

Anyway, yesterday i had to join everyone for the first time for dinner. They gave me the biggest portion on spaghetti i have ever seen, and just looking at it made me feel sick. I had about 2 mouthfuls then when i said i was done, they told me i was going nowhere until the plate was clear. After about 3 hours i still wasn’t eating any because i felt so sick. I was the only girl left there, so the staff said they would have to force feed me if i didn’t start eating it.

Then i stated crying and screaming i wouldn’t. So they they called for more staff and some were trying to hold me down, while the others fed me. It was a horrible experience and nobody would listen to me. I managed to get free and i ran out of the door to the garden and over the fence. They all tried to run after me but i got away.

It took me all that night to walk home, and i turned up to my friends house. Where i have been staying since. Her family don’t know i’m here otherwise they would of called somebody.

I really don’t know what to do. I am never going back to that place ever again! It was my idea of a nightmare. My weight isn’t that much of a problem that they result to terrorsing me. But i don’t want my mum or dad to worry. If i hand myself in, i know i will be draged staright back. I would rather die than go back.
Im not asking for help on how to put on weight! Thats exactly what i don’t want.

I need help on how to go back to my mum and dad without being draged back to that place!!
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Answer by MrB
“I don’t see why i had to go because i am never going to change who i am.”

Then why ask for advice

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#1 written by Mr Cellophane 1 year ago

I don’t get it. Women are less likely to succeed when trying to commit suicide then guys. (80% greater chance that a guy will succeed.) Women are more inclined to think how their body will look after they die. (Are there no ends to vanity?) I guess your mom and dad wanted you to go to the clinic so you would change your ways and possibly Not Die, but you prefer a slow death rather than being health because your self worth is based on an unachievable image rather than your talents and potential as a real human. Lose weight so you are a walking skeleton that no one can stand to look at until your organs fail and you die. Have the attendantents give you an enema so you can buriedied in a shoebox. It might save your parents on burial cost. It might be the only unselfish thing you do in your what looks to be a short an unproductive life. By the way, if you look good when your dead because you died before you reached 30, your still considered a loser. Wise up while you have a chance.

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#2 written by Melody 1 year ago

Hon. You are suffering from a mental illness that causes you to see yourself in a completely absurd way. I’ve got a another but not completely different disorder that has put me through a similar kind of h-e-l-l. Believe me. I know what it’s like to have people tie you down and do horrible things to you. There are doctors I’ve had who had good intentions, but they ended up hurting me. I’m still not out of the woods yet, either. I’ve been shut in a locked ward, in physical pain and needing help but nobody would help me for hours. I’ve been injected with stuff that made me have a painful, potentially life-threatening reaction that required yet more IV’s and an ER visit.
Seriously, I get it. Your life is hell right now. I’ve had people, felt betrayed by my own parents. I’m very fortunate not to be locked in a mental institution right now.
You have a very real disorder that is not your fault. Yet part of the problem is (well, part of the disorder) that you don’t acknowledge that there IS something wrong. Treatment for you will not be easy. But hon, you are STARVING YOURSELF TO DEATH. Do you want to DIE?
I will not deny the fact that you have every right to be angry.
But the real problem isn’t the people at that clinic, nor your parents, nor you. It’s not your fault, but your brain is tricking you. You have a psychiatric disorder that is killing you and terrorizing you to the point you’re willing to unwittingly kill yourself. By starving yourself.
The whole basis of having anorexia is that it’s a mental disorder that makes you think you’re fat. You’re not fat. But your mind is tricking you into thinking that, and in result, you refuse to eat at all.
You need nutrients. Not to make you fat like you think it will, but to give your cells energy. Look it up on your friend’s computer that you must be using. Anorexia. Actually look at something that tells you about your disorder. You’re in denial right now. Get the facts, the real facts, and try to see where your parents and doctors are coming from.
You have every right to be angry. Angry that you have a life-threatening disorder that is giving you hell. But you can beat it. You can do it, girl!
I bet the police/missing person’s is looking for you. You need to turn yourself in. You will DIE by starvation (a slow and horrible death, a killing technique employed in the Holocuast) if you don’t get help. You don’t deserve any of this that has happened to you, but it’s up to you to take the initiative and be responsible for your own life and ask for help. You don’t have to like it. I wouldn’t (or anyone else) expect you to. But it’s for your own good. You won’t live to turn eighteen if you don’t ask for help. Just do it. Don’t you want to graduate from high school? Live to be old enough to drink a beer or wine? Live to get married? Have a career? Make more friends? Come on. You can do it. Life isn’t easy. You’ve got a horrible disorder that is killing you. Get the facts, listen to reason from others and do the most noble thing possible- choose to live.
I’m not happy with my life either, if that’s any solace. I have a very strange, painful disorder that takes control of my body and I can’t do anything about it. There’s been times when I really just wanted to die. And for mine, there is no cure. You will do well once you accept the fact that you’re effected by a disease. I’m not saying it will be all fun, actually, no, but it’s your choice to choose to live. Do it.
Come on. You gotta

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#3 written by Zaki 1 year ago

first off, I don’t believe your story because force feeding is NOT how they help you in a clinic……they know that if you go from starving to eating that much, you WILL get sick. If you are that bad off they start with feeding tubes and/or IV…LIQUID. NOT spaghetti. And force feeding results in choking, no real hospital would do that.

second, mental hospitals have locked doors. you can’t just run out the door. and if by chance you DID escape, they would notify police and your parents immediately b/c you are a minor.

third, if you are that severely anorexic, you wouldn’t have the energy to run that far and out run everybody else. And if you really aren’t going to change and plan to stay this way for life…well, at least life won’t be THAT much longer for you.

I suggest if this really IS true, you report that hospital to authorities. Otherwise, get help for your pathological lying.

As for your anorexia…if you don’t want help, what are you asking for? I’m confused.

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#4 written by Kristal 1 year ago

Hello. Although I have never been in your situation, I can personally tell you that Jesus Christ can help you. He has changed my life and there is nothing impossible for Him. I can promise you that if you seek Him He will answer you and help you. He is the way. There is a story in the Bible where this man named Lazarus had died 4 days earlier and his sister Martha was crying to Jesus and He came and raised him from the dead. Martha thought that was it- her brother was dead and nothing could be done, but God did the impossible and raised Him. He can do the same with you. About your parents, if they put you in an anorexic home it is because they love you and wish to see their girl healthy and happy. If you want to talk I am here okay. You can email me or IM me if you like. Hope this helped. = )

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#5 written by kelly 1 year ago

You can go back, or the police will find you and bring you back.
It’s your choice how, but you’re a minor and are going to have to go back. It’s all a matter of how much trouble you want for yourself.

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#6 written by SnapCrackleDeath 1 year ago

You have rights, even under a hold. Call the cops. Call you parents. And find another Anorexia clinic. God knows you need the help but you don’t need to be harassed that way.

Yeah and whats up with that??? You need to change. Cut the shiiit and change your life around before its too late. You’re only 16, geeze, how much could you know now that can make you possibly think you have all the answers? Get over yourself and cut the crap and get your life together.

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