Question : problems with cutting and an eating disorder. i want help but i don’t know if i can do it without her?
i’ve been struggling with EDNOS (eating disorders not otherwise specified) and self injury of and on for 2 years. I’ve dealt with it on my own before but this time i just can’t seem to get over it. I was thinking about going into group therapy with my girlfriend (yes my girlfriend so if you have a problem with that leave now) but today i found out that she was going just to support me. i told her i didn’t want her to do that because it’s a waste of her money and i don’t want to be an inconvieniece for her and her family and she told me she wouldn’t go if it made me happy.
I doesn’t make me happy at all. I want her to be there with me so badly but i feel like i’m being selfish if i ask her to go just because i feel i need her there.
She has some issues too. she’s been cutting herself off and on for 3 years and suffers from depression. but if she doesn’t want to go for herself then i don’t want to make her go.
do you think i made the right desition in telling her not to go?
i tried regular therapy once and hated it. i think group therapy would be better for me
group therapy for eating disorders

Best answer:

Answer by Back For Round 17
addicts shouldnt hang around with addicts.. it never works..