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DEPRESSION MAYBE? -HELP SOON.?
Question : DEPRESSION MAYBE? -HELP SOON.?
well basically im just going to sum up my life story. my parents divorced when i was two; dont really remember much of it, my mom got remarried when i was 3. at the age of 6 my step dad molested me. i was brain washed to believe it never happened. at the age of 9 my mom divorced my step dad because of an affair and moved me and my older brother to live with her new boyfriend who was a drug dealer. i hated him, i felt like he was stealing my mom; i always started argumeants with him calling him a pot head etc; remember i was only 9. then one morning my mom said i had to live with my dad because she didnt want me anymore I WAS 9 this all happened in a day. she took my clothes put it in a trash bag and called my dad. he came; i moved to a whole new city. then at the age of 13 i was having dreams and flashbacks of being molested so i told my aunt; which then she told my dad and now he knows. im 14 going to be a freshman. i have a few close friends and recently i was talking to one of my close friends and he told me something that really hit me. he said that even though i smiled all the time i was truly empty inside. he said i was hollow and completely broken. and i thought, wow he just described me better than i ever could describe myself. i dont know whats wrong with me. my step mom always asks me whats wrong but i dont know, its like everyday im extremely down but i dont know why. last year i use to get so upset over nothing i would cut, and take pills. no one ever knew though. ive gotten better but im starting to go down again.
help me please
depression help
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Answer by Bug
When i was depressed i pushed away the people i loved but don’t do that try to keep the ones you love close and let them help you because they love you. You need to take each day at a time, and appreciate what you have. Google what happens in poor country’s or something i promise it will make you appreciate you life more. Because if they are depressed no one is their to help them. Go speak to a counselor and talk about this, because talking about the problems will help. Just take each day one day at a time, and it will get better i promise. You just have to fight, going through tough times will only make you a stronger person if you can get through them, so never give up.
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#2 written by george_the_gnome101 1 year ago
My mum kicked me out when I was 16 because I told her I was sexually assaulted when I was twelve by her partner. I have been on antidepressants ever since. I know how you feel and you just have to remember the good things when you feel down and empty, that’s what I do and I also sing to my music, so I can scream out loud and get it all of my chest. I hope I have helped if you need to talk some more, just message me.
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#3 written by Nick S 1 year ago
I’m terribly sorry to hear about everything. But you’re alive right now, you seem to be in a better situation, all that’s in the past. You’re okay now. I know it’s not easy to just get over things that bad, but you can do it.
You need to talk to your dad, get him to take you to a doctor. The doctor can suggest a counselor, who can help you. Most people don’t think so, but they can.The mind is a very, very powerful thing. It can take a while to heal, but it will.
And with your mother, just remember, Karma is a royal biotch. She will pay for what she’s done.
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#4 written by Randy F 1 year ago
Karley B., You’ve taken the first step by recognizing you have a problem. Also you have told over a million complete strangers what it is. I am not one to really recommend a therapist but perhaps you might consider it. It really helped me come to grips with an issue I had been living with for a while. Think about it
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Sounds like you have gone through a lot, but I also read you have some good things going on too. It sounds like you have a caring aunt, dad, & friend who likely love you & see you have have value. You didn’t write much about your relationship with your dad & aunt & I hope you are growing closer & in a healthy way. Relationships are often hard & something we need to work on. We have to trust them & they have to trust us. Keep trying to talk to them & do your best to focus on the present good situations & look for positive goals you can try to accomplish. You may talk to your dad & ask him if some professional counseling will help. It may seem like it will last forever, but end up a shorter time of emptiness as you progress. Hope this helps.