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Would a fertility clinic think it was strange if my fiance and I went to them before we are married?
Question : Would a fertility clinic think it was strange if my fiance and I went to them before we are married?
My fiance and I are getting married in June of 2009 and we know he has fertility problems. We’d like to start having kids almost right away once we’re married and we know it will take awhile to figure out the best method (and surgery may be involved), so I’d like to start exploring our options with fertility clinics before we are even married. Would it be odd for a couple who is not yet married to start going to a fertility clinic? We wouldn’t be trying to actually conceive until after marriage.
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Answer by thesunwasshiningonthesea
Doubtful, but possible…they’re just people, and unless you’re in the bible belt, they probably won’t care.
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#4 written by flntreehugger 1 year ago
I don’t think so. Because you know that there is a problem I think it’s smart to start planning ahead and trying to fix it before you want to have kids. And since you want to start TTC right away then the best time to work on fertility issues is before you are married. You also probably won’t be the first couple in the world to go to a fertility clinic without being married. : )
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#8 written by sun day 1 year ago
Honestly? What does it matter what they think? If you would like, say exactly what you just said in this post. It seems pretty logical to me. Just make sure that you both agree that if the outcome is that you guys can’t conceive, that you will still love each other and want to marry. It’s kind of a big thing for a lot of couples.
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It shouldnt matter what the fertility clinic thinks of you its none of their business why you are in there! Even if they find something wrong with you or your fiance – its still a problem regardless of if youre married or not.
Its not their place to judge people. I doubt they’ll turn you away if youre a paying customer!