Question : My doesnt want me to go off college my freshmen year?
I am 17 years old and i am the youngest daughter and child in my family. I have a 10 year old brother who has had legal promblems in his past and set the kitchen on fire on accident were fine we live in a rental home now. Me i have never had any legal promblems or had any fire accidents. I have been treated for any eating disorder in a residental treatment center and still go to thearpy weekly. My promblem is my mother she doesnt want me to live in the dorms she afraid i will be victimized she says the world is harsh. yea well i know that already i was sexually adused by an uncle. I live in scottsdale, Arizona and want to go to the university of Arizona in tuscon. Now I have promlems getting along with my family we have to go to family therary every since i got out of residental which was close to the u of a.
I fell in love with the school when i first saw it my plan is to be a nursing major up at the u of a. I have some anger issues but i am in thearpy to take care of them. My mother a p.h.d in phscology sorry if i spelt that wrong has heard from parents she used to work with bad stories about their kids living in dorms and crimes that happen. For a women who has that degree what a load of crap i must say. she says she has a bad feeling about me living in the dorms. Now i know i get pissed easily at my family i just wanna get away from the house grow up and start my life as a young adult.
There worried i may not get along with my roomate im different at home than out at public. A good amount of people would say i am a nice girl i am respoected and well liked. I just dont feel like i am never good enough for her as i said in family thearpy. The most imporant thing when you pick your college is your parents apperal my dad has no promblem with me living in the dorms.
but my mom does she says she has a good feeling about my brother living in the dorms but not me now i think its normal not to get along with your parents i wouyld get along even if i had a roomate. The plan is go to school study i wont drink and party ill get a job mabye go out weekends thats the plan and that should be my plan every year for fours until i get my R.N.
As I said i never feel like anything is good enough i sometimes feel like i shouldnt even apply. I said fine they i just wouldnt apply ill aopply to asu that isnt where i wnt to go u of a has a better nursing school. Sometimes i dont even think i should go to college to prove a point.
i am sorry guys i ment 19 year old brother pressed wrong number key
also i do well in school my brother never did his homework and just barley graduated with a c and the rest of the them d’s and is going to community college i get a’s and b’s and one c and math math isnt the most enjoyable subject
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Best answer:

Answer by ☮Tara Atkins☮
You have to go to college to better yourself! And at one point you will leave and GROW UP and it might as well be now! Just be careful when your in the dorms and make healthy choices to not get fat and also to not get an eating disorder again. Lots of college girls have an eating disorder (I did my Sophomore year) so be careful.