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Should I avoid sex forever because I am scared of getting erectile dysfunction?
To be honest, I am somewhat afraid of ever getting in a serious relationship with any girl because I am afraid that when I get older, I will get erectile dysfunction and it will be extremely embarrassing.
Plus, when I am an old guy, I don’t see how I would find my wife hot, if she was also old. So why would I want to have sex with an old, wrinkly woman? Why shouldn’t I just avoid ever getting a girlfriend, getting married, and having sex?
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#3 written by Norman 2 years ago
Hi Michael
If we worry about thing which may not happen & not do things because of that – we would never do anything & never learn anything either. What a miserable life you would have. There is a saying: “It is better to have tried & not succeeded than not to have tried at all”
You will have a much more fun life by doing what comes naturally & enjoying it. Chances are your worries are completely baseless. Just go for it – have fun & enjoy your young years while you can. Check out this site: http://www.kidshealth.org/teens. You will find heaps of useful info there. All the best. -
#6 written by Connor 2 years ago
Not having sex will not prevent you from getting erectile dysfuntion. The right woman will love you no matter what. And erectile dysfuntion is not that big of a deal, as guys get it, you can’t avoid it. And you said why would you wanna have sex with an old woman, why would anyone want to have sex with an old man? Sex is not that big of a deal. When you get really old sex isn’t important anymore, it’s about love and comitment, not sex.
So untill you grow up and realize sex isn’t the end all I don’t think you should be dating anyways.-Connor
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No, Michael, please don’t abstain.
You’re afraid of erectile dysfunction as you grow older. Remember the woman’s desire also reduces with age, and you will find her very understanding. There will be no embarrassment
More important, I think you are more afraid of dysfunction now than when you’re older. May be you’ve had a few bad experiences, and are now frustrated. I fully understand your feelings. Don’t be ashamed of yourself.
I suggest you couple up with a slightly older, more experienced and mature woman, who will understand your problem and help you perform and give you the confidence you need. Many unattached sexually active women prefer men between five and ten years younger.
And please don’t call an old woman “wrinkly” . It’s only your imagination. A woman can be sexually active even in her sixties, and believe me her privates will be just as juicy at 60 as they were at 16. Besides, she would know more tricks in bed than a young thing ever would, and could prove to be a greater turn-on.