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Should a man with erectile dysfunction get married?
If someone has problem with erectile dysfunction say gets erections only 1 or 2 times in a week, should he get married? What are his options. Even more severe, he has premature mature ejaculation problem too. Would a woman be willing to marry such a man or should she marry such a person? (provided she does not know he has this problem)? What are his and her options? What is fair? Men and women please both reply.
Let me add these too, he is otherwise a good lover, a good kisser and a romantic person. Yes viagra and other stuff may work but not all the time. But when it comes to intercourse that is where he is lacking and of course the frequency of how many times he can do it.
Of course I know of love but still is it fair? Can we just ignore sex altogather for the sake of love?
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#2 written by TIFFANY M 2 years ago
First, before you even ask her to marry you, tell her. Please do not lay it on her on your wedding night. Then, I believe most marriages are like mine…sex fades after awhile and sometimes I wonder if my husband has this disorder. (It’s not a problem unless you make it one) There are stores that sell accessories, if you get my drift. Get your rocks off then get hers off
. And if she’s in the mood and you just can’t get to where you need to be they will come in handy then also. If she does not stay with you over something like that, she really isn’t worth your time in the first place as long as you are honest in the beginning. Not all women are shallow but some are, so be careful. -
#3 written by Myth_Understood 2 years ago
If he doesn’t tell her about the situation before they get married, he is a fraud and the marriage should either be annulled or end in divorce.
If he is open and honest with her, their options are various and way more than I can go into here and not get into trouble. I will say, however, that there are numerous websites and stores where you can go to as a couple and purchase devices, implements, toys and other items that will more than make up for anything that is lacking.
Creativity is very important, and there’s absolutely no reason a man with ED shouldn’t get married. One of my ex-boyfriends is diabetic and, unfortunately, that affected his circulation which made him 90% impotent. The thing is, he was one of the most attentive, patient and hot lovers I’ve ever been with. The old in/out in/out … it ain’t everything, ok?
I would marry someone with ED in a heartbeat, provided he’s a really good kisser, is otherwise orally inclined, and that he’s really good with his hands *wink*
P.S. Of course it’s not fair, but why avoid sex alltogether? That’s rediculous and absurd. If all you can think about is intercourse, then you must not be very creative.
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#4 written by Jenny A. 2 years ago
Sex is about intimacy, and intimacy should grow in a marriage. Sex is not just about coitus, either. Sex can be great without penetration. There are lots of options such as oral sex, manual stimulation, toys, dirty talk, and other ways
And be honest with her. If this problem makes feel insecure about yourself, please don’t hide it from your significant other. She deserves to know, and you deserve to feel comfortable enough in your relationship to be open with her.And have you seen your doctor to ask if there’s any medical advice you could use?
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#6 written by betty Boo 2 years ago
He can get married. There is nothing wrong with him in getting married. Erectile dysfunction can be cured, i mean it’s not even an illness. A good psychologist /sexologist can help men with erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. It is an easy thing to resolve if the woman is willing to help the man. I had a boyfriend with premature ejaculation problem and has we started dating and having sex i realized about his problem and spoke to him and he admitted that he had the problem we saw a sexologist and in less then 3 weeks he was as good as a porno star.
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#8 written by Lake Sunsets 2 years ago
If he is healthy.. there is always Viagra… and there are other products to fix this problem or at least help out.
If he has health problems and he can not take medication for it, but on the other hand you love him more than anything. Than this is something you can work around..
It all depends on what you will be happy with.. an occasional hard one or a constant limp one…
I hope this all works out for you.. - Comment Feed for this Post
yes definitely, it can be corrected by pills, it’s love that makes a good marriage. you can have a happy life without it and can also make other things to, intimacy comes in different packages. a good pill by the way is viswiss, more safe and effective. works all the time.