How do you comfort an Alzheimer’s patient with suicidal thoughts / statements?
Purely theoretical say if you knew someone recently diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and that person says, life is not worth living and I do not want me no more with the disease. What do you say to him / her at least make him / her feel better?
Usually the care plan involves some sort of social worker. Medication helps, but the truth is, at some point, they’re right. My step-mother had a disease that included dementia. She got the diagnosis at age 35. She was pregnant with her first/only child. She died at 45. My regret is not listening to her when she was well enough to make decisions for herself, like if she wanted a feeding tube when she could no longer eat or a respirator when she couldn’t breathe on her own. Even her will. I couldn’t listen to her and kept saying there would be a cure, or a better treatment. If I had it to do over, I’d listen to whatever she wanted to say and help her with a living will. I panicked at the end and insisted on a feeding tube which extended her suffering for 6 weeks.