How do I compose the invitation? I need an answer in 24 hours max. dO i SAY THAT I AM HOSTING THIS LUNCHEON FOR MY FORMER MOTHER IN LAW? sHOULD i JUST SAY HER NAME? hELP! The party is on the 4th of March. The invites have to be PRINTED AND circulated this sUNDAY. i WANT TO REFER TO HER AS MY FORMER MOTHER IN LAW. i HAVE BEEN DIVORCED FROM HER SON FOR A YEAR AFTER A 20 YEAR MARRIAGE. sHE AND i ARE CLOSE. wHATS THE PROPER THING TO DO?